I was eight months pregnant, tired from the weight of it all, when I stepped onto the tram. The moment I sat down, a woman stepped in, holding a baby in one arm and a large bag in the other. She looked exhausted, worn down by the daily grind. No one made room for her, so I stood up and offered her my seat. She gave me a strange glance, but I didn’t think much of it at the time.

When she got off, I felt something wet slip into my bag. My heart dropped as I pulled it out— it was a pacifier, cracked and chewed, with a note folded around it. The note read: “Don’t be a hero. No one claps for mothers falling apart.” The words hit me like a punch to the gut. I didn’t know how to feel. Was it a warning, an act of kindness, or a judgment?

As I stared at the pacifier in my hand, I realized something profound. This woman didn’t see a fellow mother offering a seat; she saw someone heading toward the same breaking point she had faced. She wasn’t trying to be cruel, but trying to warn me— motherhood wasn’t about proving strength. It was about surviving the days that felt like they would never end.