When my 12-year-old son Ben agreed to shovel snow for our wealthy neighbor Mr. Dickinson for $10 a day, he was overjoyed. His plan was simple: earn enough money to buy thoughtful gifts for the family. But when Mr. Dickinson refused to pay, calling it a “lesson in contracts,” Ben was devastated. That’s when I decided it was time for a lesson of our own—a lesson in accountability.
Ben had always had a heart bigger than his years. At just 12, his determination could humble grown men. Still, I never imagined I’d be standing with my husband in the freezing cold, enacting a plan to teach our neighbor that cheating a child wasn’t just bad business—it was personal.
“Mom! Mr. Dickinson said he’ll pay me $10 every time I shovel his driveway!” His face was glowing with pride.
Mr. Dickinson, our insufferably wealthy neighbor, was known for his arrogance. He reveled in flaunting his luxurious lifestyle, from the sleek sports cars in his garage to the extravagant holiday parties in his mansion.
Letting Ben shovel his driveway was probably, in his mind, some sort of charitable gesture.
“That’s fantastic, sweetheart,” I said, tousling his hair. “What are you going to do with all that money?”
Ben’s expression grew serious—one of those rare moments when childhood excitement gives way to a glimpse of maturity. “I’m going to buy you a scarf. And a dollhouse for Annie.”
By December 23rd, Ben was a well-oiled machine of winter labor.
That morning, he left the house humming a carol. I went about my day, expecting him to return as usual, tired but triumphant.
But when the door slammed open an hour later, I knew something was wrong.
“Ben?” I called out, rushing from the kitchen.
He stood by the door, his boots half-on, his gloves still clenched in his trembling hands. His shoulders heaved, and tears clung to the corners of his wide, panicked eyes
I kneeled beside him, gripping his arms. “Sweetheart, what happened?”
He wouldn’t talk at first, but eventually, he told me everything.
“Mr. Dickinson… he said he’s not paying me a single cent.”
The words hung in the air, heavy as a stone.
“What do you mean, he’s not paying you?” I asked, though I already knew the answer.
Ben sniffled, his face crumpling.